The sugar daddy scene is becoming an increasingly popular way for students facing big student loan debts to find a social and financial support system. If you have friends who have entered the world of sugar, they have probably told you that it is a fun and easy way to meet friends and make money. Your friends who have never tried seeking sugar daddies probably also tell you that there are many risks involved with the sugar daddy lifestyle, and both sides have a point. Here are some ways that you can have the best possible experience with sugar daddies and stay away from the stress and drama.
1. Avoid Haters
When you made your choice of college and your choice of major, you didn’t let jealous naysayers who get in the way. People who have only negative things to say about everything you do are of no help when it comes to your studies on your personal relationships. If you meet someone through a sugar site and get along great with him, the last thing you need is to hear a long tirade from someone who thinks that all sugar daddies are losers who make up for in inherited wealth what they lack in social skills.
2.Use Your Good Judgment to Avoid Creeps
Some people start out seeking sugar daddies and end up with a long relationship, but it takes a while to build trust. No matter how many messages you exchange online and how many phone conversations you have, people you meet online are strangers until you have spent time with them in person and become part of their social circle in real life. When someone messages you for the first time, you can Google the person’s name to see the person’s public profiles on sites like LinkedIn and the website of his place of employment.
3. Put Your Studies First
Beware of sugar daddies who want to monopolize your time and take you away from your studies. You don’t need someone in your life who makes you a worse student. Besides, someone who behaves that way is probably a controlling person.
4. Don’t Play Games
If all you want is attention and to play mind games, you will cause yourself nothing but stress on the sugar daddy scene and everywhere else. Don’t try to make people do extraordinary things to prove that they are paying attention to you; everyone loses that way.
5. Don’t Judge Other Sugar Babies
Just as you don’t need jealous haters in your life, you are not helping other people by making petty criticisms of them. Focus on your own life and your own studies.